I know how this will sound. I do. I know exactly where your mind will go when I make this statement, but I make it anyway and I stand by it because of my personal life experiences.   There is one thing that I have learned in the last three years of therapy, and that is … Continue reading Great expectations

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Sometimes our justice system does a shitty job.  Sometimes the over-privileged white frat boys get a pass.  I get it, they have money.  They say it'll never happen again.  It's just boys being boys.  The media doesn't really cover it, so it ends up somehow being the GIRL'S fault, and this fuckwad gets a pass … Continue reading We will make you immortal.

Eighteen days.  That's how long it's been since I've had a cigarette.  And I don't *really* miss it, but I do.  I miss having something to do all the time.  My adhd goes into overdrive at this point in the year, so it was always nice to have that vice to lean on.  But since … Continue reading The sun’s getting real low…

It's hard to believe, but I've made over 100 posts!  I started this just under a year ago and I am definitely a changed person in that time.  But what happens when you change and no one else does?  It creates a rift.  Sometimes that rift can be mended with friends and actually end up … Continue reading 100 what??

Candy Treats Wreath , $25+s&h   Candy Cane Wreath,  $25+s&h   This wreath can be Customized with a Letter for your family name, or anything else you'd like.   Candy Dreams Wreath, $25+s&h.  This one is definitely alternative-holiday decor!  The wreath itself is purple twigs with purple crystals wired throughout and the ornaments are attached.   … Continue reading Christmas Wreaths for sale!

It is totally acceptable to Shake It Off dancing around the kitchen whilst eating Nutella on a spoon as part of the grieving process. I don't know why, but now I'm a little less sad.

I saw this quote the other day that went something like this:  Quit trying to organize your house.  If you were an organized person it would have happened already, so just de-crapify what you have. I like that.  I like that a lot.  You see, I am a messy person.  It's not by choice---I truly … Continue reading I am a messy person, and that’s okay.

I've been a mom for nearly a decade and I don't pretend to have the slightest clue what I'm doing.  I fully admit that a solid 60% of the time I'm winging it.  I'm good about making sure they get plenty of sleep---up until a month ago they both(age 9 and 7) had a 7pm … Continue reading The newest in Mom-shaming.