Hello friends! I know, I know, it's been ages. And if you follow me on IG, Twitter or FB, you know why. For the rest of you--strap in, this is gonna take a hot second to lay out. As a general update, it was a nice fall. I traveled to Ohio, spent time with my … Continue reading It’s been awhile

Everything will be ok in the end.  If it's not ok, it's not the end. -John Lennon If there is any quote I should have tattooed on me to see every single day, it's that one. It boils down to having faith that you are on the right path.  The hard part is finding that … Continue reading Thank you, John Lennon

I shouldn't do that, I shouldn't talk like it is over, but the truth is that it IS over. My job is not what it was and the people I work with now are not all family. I learned that in my heart tonight when I went to my boss's going away party. Actually, there … Continue reading Eighteen years of magic.

I haven't been writing as much and I miss it. I'd been in the dark place for awhile, then it got really rocky. Thankfully I have this amazing network of friends that keep me anchored in rough seas. And so once again I crawled out of that hole. Today "I can see clearly now" popped … Continue reading It’s been awhile

The first thought that I had when I read this was "Absolutely not!". I wasn't going to bother responding because I'm not going to deal with someone that has such grammar issues, but the question itself IS a good one to ask me. Do I feel I am invading queer spaces such as the men's … Continue reading Dear Anonymous…

"Once I realized I had broke balls I decided I wasn't going there anymore."